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To marry the foreigner... it must be confessed - about this dream is not only for young girls. And some actually find their fiance. Cup- in all, after pursuing after the spectral happiness, woman occurs in the networks more scary, than solitude. After being in America, in Atlanta (state of Georgia), I met there with Nellie Vergilis. Nellie deals with the questions, connected with the violence in the family. According to her observations, in recent years became frequent the bells and the rotation of women from the CIS, who left marry for the foreigners.
Firstly Russian mail order brides must know that in America an enormous quantity of men, called "losers", man- unlucky wretches, who became bankrupt and who burned down. They were returned, they cannot rise to the feet. Have on this basis different deviations. They are treated in psychiatrists, but, naturally, hide such facts. The secret of "success" they see in the woman, more viable, who knows how to surmount difficulty. To find wife by it is practically impossible among its compatriots - American women are very nagging, are legible, in them large claims. The men uncertain of themselves do not love their, contemporary and independent variables, which clearly declare about the fact that they want to obtain from the man. Motto of the behavior: make, as it pleases himself me, otherwise I will find other. To keep silent or to cry in the tank it will not be.
However, in men the stereotype was formed: only woman from the third countries - present. For them the main thing is family, but not quarry pit. As always, on the human fates someone makes money. After studying supply and demand, "rogues" created the marriage agencies: the "transfer of Russian mail order brides", "custom-made brides", "brides on catalogue"... sometimes aspirant into the hand and heart after small correspondence accomplishes voyage on the candidates. The long-awaited encounter occurs. "Fiancé" is properly packed, he smells well, beautifully it cares, and he speaks in English. "Bride", after seeing respectable man, does not know how to gratify him, she is twirled, as bee. Encounter and acquaintance took place, but it is worth relying on the first impression?! For the woman "soaked happiness" it begins to collapse almost from the very beginning. At first glance the "fiance" has a two-story house, but, it occurs, it is not paid. But it has the low paid work. "Russian mail order bride" no one knows. He does not know, where to turn. Isolation begins. It completely in the hands of man.
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