Singles and their view on friendship

Friendship is this manifestation of fraternal- sister's relations. They are also unique as children's- parental, conjugal and parental- children's relations. There are only 4 types of relations between singles, which I enumerated. They rise from in the family and they leave into the society precisely by such, such as they were formed precisely in the family. Friend is a brother or a sister. Such relations from one side assume partnership, i.e., the equality of relations, and from other side, in this that exactly and the special feature of fraternal- sister's relations, on the basis of partnership are regulated "subject -object" the relations. Look. Child- parent, it is clear that the parent is subject, and child - object. Parent- child, it is analogous. Brother- sister, here and the most complex. To learn rapidly to pass from the position of subject into the position of object this is very complicated. Balance in such relationships is very important. Balance, or more precisely accordion is determined precisely by this - by the readiness to rapidly replace one position for another. Only therefore remains the position of equality, partnership, collaboration. Such relations leave into the society in the form of the working association, where all colleagues between themselves brothers sister. Colleges difficult only, where someone intensely stack into the position of subject does not descend from it. But someone sat down into the position of object and it was also seized it by all hands and teeth.

Friendship between singles assumes the readiness of man to proceed with the rapid and dynamic change of its position - now 4 subjects, and you - object, and in this situation you- subject, and 4 object. To find the same person, as is concordant internally for this rapid change of positions at the age of approximately 30 and more is very difficult. Almost - it is impossible. Since at this age, in accordance with the development of man, it already stands (or must be located) on the position of husband and father of its children. The friendship, about which you speak possible only in the period of youth. The processes of changing the position can occur dynamically and harmoniously at this time of the development of man

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