Singles: loneliness as the freedom we hate

Do all the singles feel lonely? And in general, what does it mean to be one of singles? There is a fair number of people who even once having experienced loneliness would not suffer from it much. The big city - the big loneliness... The Work, acquaintances and relatives, cares about daily bread and daily life only dulls this feeling. Spiritual loneliness is able to make people weak and even weak-willed.

And still, loneliness... What is it? Fate? A result of autohypnosis? Or maybe a condition of your heart after the previous pain caused by treachery or a loss? Why from time to time, even after the brightest day spent among friends or even relatives people have very boring and lonely evenings?

And at the same time some people especially those who have already had some negative experience in their life are afraid of new losses. On the one hand the reason for loneliness is fear of disappointments and losses. But on the other hand, why it is sometimes so terrible to lose it? Maybe we just don't want to lose our freedom? That is why many singles enjoy their loneliness. In such a way both points of view seem to be mutually contradictory. What to do? To reconcile or just to struggle and still to try to overcome your fears?

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